The meaning of being a mother is virtually endless. A mother is a protector, disciplinarian, and friend. A mother is a selfless, loving human who must sacrifice many of their wants and needs for the wants and needs of their children. A mother works hard to make sure their child is equipped with the knowledge, skills and abilities to make it as a competent human being. Being a mother is perhaps the hardest, most rewarding job a woman will ever experience.
Five years ago today (Mother’s Day May 10th, 2010) Judith Marshall DeCosmo passed away peacefully in her sleep to join her beloved “Johnny” in the hands of God.
During the last five years, I have gotten to know my Aunt Judith through the eyes of her daughter, my cousin Courtney. I knew my Aunt Judith as an encourager, an intellectual, a business woman, wife to my Uncle Johnny and mother to my cousins.
I have come to find out that all those were simply adjectives just scratching the surface of the multi- dimensional woman I called Aunt Judith.
There have been many milestones in Courtney’s life these past few years that we have walked through with my cousin and my Aunt Judith. How could that be since Aunt Judith is no longer with us?
While preparing for Courtney’s wedding, we learned the organizational, sentimental side of her mother. A mother that had planned for her daughter’s wedding since Courtney’s birth. There were files and notebooks of instructions, thoughts and words of wisdom all laid out for Courtney to reference for her life penned and researched by her mother. There was a deep caring and sense of humor found on those pages. A piece of Judith preserved to form her legacy as a mother and grandmother.
Courtney’s baby shower theme was a tea party. Aunt Judith had planned that theme years ago and had purchased the favors as we had discovered.
The baby shower was given at The Vinoy Renaissance St. Petersburg Resort & Golf Club ( A special place to Aunt Judith).
Aunt Judith’s baby shower notes were executed and embellished and her presence was felt all during the festivities.
Now that Courtney has a child of her own there have been so many everyday situations that she pauses to reflect and ask ” What would Momma say, What would Momma do?
Aunt Judith’s newest grandchild (that she has not met here on earth) will know her through the thoughtful words and deeds she has passed onto Courtney. Judith Marshall DeCosmo’s legacy lives today in another generation.
Courtney is a wonderful mother to her little girl. She is that kind of a mother today because of all the time, nurturing and planning her mother invested in her throughout her life.
A mother’s love is felt forever!
Happy Mother’s Day to all those that have mothered someone!